monday monday...and the wee hours of tuesday today a cuban white guy helped me realize that i dont believe in a one-size-fits-all morality. i love it when people make me elaborate--everyone should get the third degree, they learn so much about themselves thats why i wanted to be a journalist so much, it was never about the truth for me, or knowing it first--not really truth is, i'm a curious, argumentative brat and i love asking questions and usually people love answering them do you believe in God? what is your favorite moment growing up? are you ticklish? is this where you want to be? how many people do you trust? are you happy? there was this experiment where scientists put two subjects in a controlled environment and made them mimic the behavior of people in love they were forced to ask personal questions and answer them honestly hold hands for a certain amount of time stare into each others eyes for a certain amount of time and more often than not, the subjects ended up developing feelings for each other! i'm starting to believe that its just connection not so much with who or why or how just the fact that someone's heard you and that you've heard them is that a very cold conclusion? i suppose it would be disappointing to some... that there isnt a one true love out there i dont know the way i see it, there's no reason to be alone, or more importantly, cling to someone who you havent connected with because you fear being alone you should believe in options- and i think thats hopeful and optimistic speaking of which i saw the cheesiest goofy brady-bunchy sugar coated kill me this is too adorable movie today yours, mine and ours (awful title) twas fun though jumbo bopcorn and i got to see freshy and the jazz crew and fiiiinally got out of the house for the WHOLE day missed nonie though. suspect it has something to do with the whole anniversary outing. cant be sure. her tone was kinda solemn. will find out tomorrow...today-- if i'm not asleep or at the feminist project lady's house i really need to kick this nocturnal thing |